*Lost*

Life brings a lot of things in your life when it seems like you have lost something very close to you and all other aspects which leads to such a difficult phase which we all phase in our day to day life. Here I am again, it’s been a more than 7 odd months I haven’t updated my blog and busy in other stuff which are helping me to get a sound sleep. Every time I saw some negativity around me, it pounds me to get something unique from that which will aspire me, now the big question is. Am I mad looking positivity from negativity, how is this possible. Well from my understanding and little bit interest in the facts about psychological terms there is a mere effect that we can find out positivity from the enough of negativity which is continuous moving around us and making us fool day by day and also making our relationship much complex even though there is nothing worst going on.

Let’s suppose if a person in front of you throwing tantrums about their ongoing life about his life, his emotional stability by talking about personally attached things, money problem then it means that person needs help A Good Help. When I say good help means help in continuous proportion from where he/she can lead their life safely. Sooner or later when we are hearing the things spoken by that random guy who believes you as true friend but you think its general and it’s good to share feeling maybe inside college, colleague in office or maybe during the morning jogging with mates. What all we can merge out from such a conversation, by going through each of the things happening in their life? We must evoke ourselves to such a distinct level of understand ability so that we can learn from such a traumatic situation which we thought of some tantrums, life is a lesson what we learn, what we get and what we achieve. If we stopped learning new happenings around the globe there will be no improvement in the societies and world will be like this only for decades and in no time we can see different version of our Earth. Last week it happened with me and it really aspires me as how should I look into some of the random and awkward situations which are not good as what we use to think.

I was sitting in the campus area of my office building, I saw a group of people were murmuring about the girl who seems to crying alone in the other part of bench which was just adjacent to them, as from different state I always prefer to stay with my own and never to bother about others and people will stare you till the end you were away from their eyes. I wanted to ask that girl what’s wrong as immediately a boy came there and she went with her and all that group have a big laugh, I was confused why these people giving such witty expressions when someone is crying like hell. Maybe this is how we used to live in our day to day life, making fun of others and realising this to the other side of people that we have good bond which you don’t have. Little-little things plays a big role in our day to day life by keeping it simple I would say if we dig down deeper into the fact of bonding and relationship there will be no if and no but only thing which matters is the bonding between the two people and how they are doing. People will come into your life, they will going to make you so much happy and also do so many other stuff for their benefit then one day they going to split their other side and all such feeling you have going for that special person going to end and you will definitely reach to that level where the chances of going into the stage of depression is higher than as we making depression as the major problems these days.

Making friends is good thing but making sure they actually mean the same as you do for them is a much bigger think for everyone out there, I believe that if we are not getting time for our ourselves to groom up to that level where we can trust and regain all those little things which needed to make life awesome, we not living the worth life. Being as less socialist to outer world I may have lesser experience from the people who are reading this but just I want to make a point that investing onto ourselves first then looking into the others will definitely grow us and also helps us in maintaining and understanding every kind of relationship.

Thanks.